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Linda M Hughes here, I work with people struggling with the loss of a loved one. My training as a psychic medium allows me to offer them unique solutions to their unique problems. I combine those solutions with others that I created, as I struggled through my own losses. From 2008 to 2025, I had to find a way to rebuild my own inner life after the losses of my father, sister, son, husband, mom and nephew.
This rebuild was done by:
-combining the intuitive, flowing psychic arts in Step 2, to include private and small group medium readings,
-with my own life experiences with loss, which then became Steps 1, 3 and 4
-and included everything that I had used previously in my private practice as a personal coach.
As a personal coach, I am known for 3 things that I have included in all that I offer now, including my Rebuild Your Inner Life After Loss program. These are that:
-I recognize that you are unique and each of the Steps include the flexibility to fit you right where you are at, right now,
-Each of the Steps have been designed with a start/stop time of 5 weeks, to include measurable goals and outcomes,
-If you require additional assistance or your needs fall outside the boundaries of these Steps, I also offer private or small group sessions.
Although there is a lot of self-study built in, I don’t believe that the rebuild of your inner life can be done without a community of like minded people that may or may not have shared in the experience of loss.
That is why we created and I welcome you to “Our Place Community”.
These steps are numbered because I wished I had done them all in that order myself. In fact, I started with Step 2, went to Step 4, then 1 finished up with Step 3. Because of this, I would ask you to read through each of the Steps and just pick the one that resonates with you at that moment. This will be your perfect place to start.
I would also encourage you to join the Community immediately, before you leave this site from your 1st visit. The hardest part about losing the people that you are closest to is loneliness. We are a new community, but loneliness begins to go away after connecting with only 1 other person.
Finally, I have rewritten this home page multiple times. I awoke from a dream yesterday with the following thought in my mind:
Losing a loved one is a journey, destination unknown. Although the grief evolves outward from your heart, and you learn to cope, you will never “recover” or “heal” from it because it is not an injury, illness or disease. It is a fact of life. As time flows along, you will accept it as the price of “moving forward” on your own journey. Take each step of your journey as you need to at that time, there is no right or wrong way to do it, only your way.
It is my hope that as a fellow traveler, you will allow me to walk beside you for at least the 4 steps that I am taking right now, which are listed below. Peace and love to you and thanks for stopping by.
Rebuild Your Inner Life After Loss
Welcome To "Our Place"
There Is One Thing That Must Be An Integral Part Of
Rebuilding Your Inner Life After Loss
And That Is Community.
All of us who are rebuilding need a place to call home, with people that really get your pain.
At the same time, we need to recognize that those who have not suffered a recent loss may still bring
considerable value, insight and friendship into our lives. And here they will also be welcome.
We will be meeting, greeting and forming friendships, one person, one "get together" at a time.
I will open up each "get together" with a unique tool that will help break the ice.
And after that, there are many ways to call forth the joys of life, especially with likeminded people.
Don't worry if you are new to us! Strangers are just friends we haven’t met yet, so welcome aboard!
The Purpose Of Step 1 Is To Help You Survive The Recent Loss Of A Loved One
I will show you how I took control over myself
to survive the things that I had no control over and would never be able to change.
This will include:
- a Quick Assessment - when to get physical/mental health care,
- 1st level self care tips,
- 2 FREE guided meditations,
Most importantly, I will show you how to give your grief a place to stay
when the rest of your life demands your attention.
The Purpose Of Step 2 Is To Help You Connect With A Deceased Loved One
In A Medium Or Intuitive Reading.
Please wait 3 months after your loss, to schedule either reading.
There are several reasons for this, the most important of which
is to give yourself the time to deal with all the more immediate needs.
Although you may really want to re-connect with your Loved One,
a "Medium Reading" may not be in alignment with your spiritual beliefs.
In this case, I encourage you to let me show you how to connect in an "Intuitive Reading" instead.
Neither "reading" is a requirement to proceed with "Rebuilding Your Inner Life After Loss".
CLICK TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THESE SACRED CONNECTIONS WITH YOUR LOVED ONE
The Purpose Of Step 3 Is To Help You Reconnect You With Yourself.
After the deaths of my Loved Ones, I knew I had to find a way to connect to something solid & real.
The only thing I KNEW was real, was me. I was solid, I was real, I existed.
I didn’t like anything about me at that moment in time, but at least it was a place to start.
In my search for any solutions to the problems I had at that moment,
I did find several "unique solutions" that were immensely helpful for reconnecting with myself.
I look forward to sharing all of them with you in this Step 3.
The Purpose Of Step 4 Is To Help You Start Creating Your New Story.
It will be impossible to rebuild your inner life while living in a story that no longer exists.
I will help you prove that you CAN change your story,
Then, I will help you get started!
We will personalize strategies & then begin by:
Separating & safely storing the memories of your Loved One from the old story
Recognizing that all memories "bad" or "good", molded and created you,
And now, some of them may need to be released or retired,
To give you the hope, inspiration and freedom to now create the 1st pages of your new story.
The Purpose Of Private Coaching Is For When You Need Clarity About Life's Choices.
I am glad you are here.
As you might have already seen, I work with people who are struggling after the loss of a loved one.
I have a very extensive program to help this person rebuild their inner life after loss.
But, sometimes, they require immediate attention that is outside the boundaries
of this structured rebuilding.
So, I look outside those boundaries to help them find their solutions.
One way I do this is by combining elements of:
- transformational life coaching,
- with years of pragmatic, down to earth personal coaching
- and the Tarot, a widely accepted personal development coaching tool.